The problem of out of wedlock births is a social problem hardly limited to the Black community. The problem is that we tend to absolve the mothers of all negligence and mind games. It takes two people to make a child and women who make poor selections should accept some responsibility.
Sadly, at work I often hear of children used as footballs in brutal divorces. I hear story after story
of children caught in the center of these fights. Perhaps I should count my blessings that there were no children in my marriage. When my ex called years later I hung up. This is a luxury divorced spouses with kids should never do.
It is easier to lump a complex problem at the feet of one party than to talk of the larger picture. It is good that Obama is urging men to be responsible. However, women need to show better judgement at times. Sadly, some parents place their selfish needs of revenge before their kid's sanity.