Being male I am burdened by the absurd tie. I don't like ties and they get in the way. If I am performing a ceremony or testifying in court this is another matter. It is an anachronistic feature that should be optional.
However, if I chose to dress up like Davy Crockett or in traditional Indian attire then that is a distraction.
One time is a joke, but a long term pattern is something else. If I wore the Guyanaman shirt every week that would be an issue.
This issue is not homosexuality so much as outrageous clothes creating a distraction.