I felt things were starting to get better between myself and Sunbeam in the morning. We exchanged loving texts. She called several times and the tone was the woman who I love with my heart and soul.
It did not take us long to rebuild the chemistry as it is always there. I naturally hold her as I sleep. Many women dream of having a relationship with someone who is their best friend. I am her best friend and I love her with my heart and soul.
In general one needs to understand that all of us need to love and be loved. However, we have to be careful with the person we select. No two people are evenly matched and nobody ever changes. The most important thing is to above all remain positive and find a decent person who wants to work with you. Oddly, the last part is the most over looked factor when people let life pass them by.
If you go looking for love with a laundry list you are going to fail. Find a decent person who is upbeat and above all you can work with. I treat all of our time as bonding experiences from sharing a meal, to a regular date to doing chores together.
In life there are no magic bullet answers. Remain positive, hold your hand out to the one you love and be realistic has worked for me.