Saturday, May 23, 2009

The Dawn

I felt things were starting to get better between myself and Sunbeam in the morning. We exchanged loving texts. She called several times and the tone was the woman who I love with my heart and soul.

It did not take us long to rebuild the chemistry as it is always there. I naturally hold her as I sleep. Many women dream of having a relationship with someone who is their best friend. I am her best friend and I love her with my heart and soul.

In general one needs to understand that all of us need to love and be loved. However, we have to be careful with the person we select. No two people are evenly matched and nobody ever changes. The most important thing is to above all remain positive and find a decent person who wants to work with you. Oddly, the last part is the most over looked factor when people let life pass them by.

If you go looking for love with a laundry list you are going to fail. Find a decent person who is upbeat and above all you can work with. I treat all of our time as bonding experiences from sharing a meal, to a regular date to doing chores together.

In life there are no magic bullet answers. Remain positive, hold your hand out to the one you love and be realistic has worked for me.


commoncents said...

Great post - keep up the excellent work!

Anonymous said...

Bon chance mes ami!

Ducky's here said...

Start out friends, stay friends forever.

I think Hemingway said that.

The Pagan Temple said...

I love my privacy too much. I can't stand being around somebody all the time. I don't even like sleeping in the same bed with somebody else. I'd rather just take care of business and just go off to our separate bedrooms.

That's the only way it can work for me, and if I could find somebody like that it still wouldn't work, because I would like to have to not be around her most of the rest of the day as well.

And if that would work, I wouldn't trust her. See how screwed I am?

The icing on the cake is, I'm fine with all that. You're obviously a loving, caring person, Beak. I hope it works out for you long term. I just hope you know your happiness doesn't depend on any one person. It took me some time to realize that myself. In my case its a damn good thing I did.